We matched on an app. The bill came. Total silence. Who pays?

Met a guy on Hinge and went for casual drinks last night. The vibe was decent, nothing crazy, but when the check hit the table, he just... stared at it. Complete, agonizing silence. In this economy, going on 2–3 first dates a week is literally a second rent payment. Am I wrong fo

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● 3 total votes
67% voted 🪓 Strict 50/50 Split
💵 The Inviter Pays 0%
0 votes
♛ 🪓 Strict 50/50 Split 67%
2 votes
💳 The Power Move (Pay whole thing, never text back) 33%
1 vote
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